Sorry for the long dry spells. Master-Sir has been home lately and not traveling as much. He is keeping me busy with chores, slave duties and maybe a new girlfriend for Him. Plus my job is getting busy before the holiday dry spell.
From our three day slave weekend, we all three left it in a good spot. Lots of talking, sharing and growing. Slave Patty has been texting me every day since. Talking, asking questions and keeping me updated with what’s new in her life.
After the weekend, she wanted to really go all in as the slave to her Husband and business partner. Her fears that if she was to be His slave like she wants to be and He would love her to be, she feared the loss of her business acumen. Her specialty is doing the books, the paperwork, the details Husband/Master hates. He likes her to be the face of the pub when out networking and the community meetings. She could not understand how she would be the face and the force of the business when she was also being His slave.
Also, we helped her with the family issues. How to have the appearance of a devoted wife, not an abused wife. How to make it all work with family still at home and the rest of the family visiting often. With her and her Master, they also have a family-style business. So how do they run that together and keep the Master/slave relationship growing while not letting the kinky side escape out to the public?
Slave Haley’s experience with her Master helped a lot. Slave Haley was also the business partner and did a lot of the face time with the business meetings and such. Her advice was to look at it as if she was not the owner, but the Owner’s slave. She was doing things to please Him, not her or the Chamber of Commerce. As well, when asked a question, she would need to run it by the Owner anyway, the boss, the Master. Just can’t say “Let me ask my Master on that” when out networking!
That is an issue I was faced with earlier in my slave wanting days. How to be a woman of the modern era and still have a Master I obeyed? I learned from my Owner now that it’s really 100% mental. I look at life thru the eyes of an Owned piece of property. Not as a free-thinking lady of modern equal rights. Everything I do or say is based around one question: Will my Owner be pleased that I am saying this or doing this? Leaving out what others think or say. That’s not an easy switch to make because as humans, we are always worried about what others will think, say or do. It doesn’t matter, will HE be happy? If “Yes”, no worry. Once you successfully make that mental switch, your slave life starts going in the right direction.
It’s all in how you look at it mentally. Slave Haley helped with the mental part. To her as well as myself, it needs to be a full commitment. 100% one way or another. No 50/50. Do you want to be His wife and a business partner or do you want to be His slave and be the secret sauce to His business success?? Can you stand in the shadow and know you made Him the success or do you need your name in the headlines as well? Do you want Him to own you or to just play with you in the bedroom? She wants to be Owned. Her eyes told me it was in her heart and her soul. She wants to be His slave with every fiber of her being.
For her, she needs to stop looking at it as “our business”. It is and it isn’t. Are you His wife or His slave? If you’re His slave, meaning you belong to Him, then its His business. As a slave, would He want you to be weak, stupid and just a mindless thing He orders around? Or, like my Owner, He wants someone He can Own that can think on her own, be inventive, creative and problem-solving. He wants a slave that will make all parts of His life better, more successful and less stressful. To do that, He needs a smart and beautiful slave. SLave Patty is a beautiful woman, smart and intelligent business Owner and will be a great slave to her Owner. She is an important asset to her Owner.
For me. I work and my money helps pay part of the mortgage for this house. I will rarely if ever claim to be part owner of this house because as His slave, I am His property and property can’t own anything. It’s in how you look at it. This is His house, I am His slave. It’s His car, It’s His slave. Your Master is happy when His business is doing well and He will be pleased when it’s doing well because His smart, focused and loving slave made it happen! So make it happen and make your Master Happy. Doing that and your life as His slave will be happy as well.
She took everything we talked about that weekend and since, and she made the moves to be more a slave and mother, less of a wife and business partner. She told me the mental switch is a lot easier than she thought it would be and is coming along sweetly. Her master has helped make the switch by making new household rules for her to follow. She likes making him the center of her life in all things. She lets Him lead more and will sit quietly and listen. When He is here to deliver a pizza, he loves to tell us His side of it all. The way He is feeling better and in more control, knowing she is still there doing the books and making Him look good.
Most of the talk about the business is done at home and in His office. So He made a new rule. When Dad’s office door is closed, He (and mom) are not to be interrupted. So when they need to sit down to discuss business or like when she needs to deliver Him the quarterly stats and get His approval for marketing ideas, she knows they will be left alone. She asks permission to enter His office, close and lock the door. before they speak, she will get naked and kneel on a pillow beside His desk and smile at her Owner. They are now free to talk business as partners as well as Master/slave.
A funny thing she told me last week was that she also now understands the power of the kneeling naked position. He has commanded her to give Him a blowjob more often in that position than any other time! Plus she has reported that His commands are now more frequent than His “what do you think?” something that all three of us agreed drove us bonkers when our Masters first Owned us!
When both of them are together, they talk the new way she is behaving, how well the business is doing with the new roles and may even be getting better since she is now focused on making Him look good and being happy. She also likes it because He has taken on a more Dom role in all areas of the life and business. He immediately changed her wardrobe. No more pants suits or even jeans. Only skirts and dresses so she looks more the feminine part, the slave part because now all her holes are easy for Him to get to. She loves the way He now inspects her after she showers in the morning. The dress code allows Him to play with her pussy under the table and nobody knows it. He has also started to not only spank her when she makes an error, but He also bought a heavy wooden paddle for the more serious errors. With the office door locked, He has the ability to be the Master to His slave.
Head of Household
Her other concern was how it looked to other people. She feared insulting family and friends if she went too far on the obedience stuff. slave Haley and I talk about family issues and how to work around them. we both had family that was split on what they saw in our “marriages”. When asked or somebody made a comment about “how can a modern woman is so focused on being helpful to her husband, putting Him first in this era of “equal rights”?” I always put it in the sense that we believe in old-fashioned relationships. He is the head of the household. I am second in command and although I can make the decisions, I prefer to talk with Him and let Him make the final answer. I am still seen as strong and confident, just that some decisions require that I talk to my “husband” for the best answers. There is no reason for them to know the real answer. I want Him to be the leader of my life. My decision was to be the slave.
Older people love to see it and hear that some people still live that way. Younger people are starting to see that it doesn’t mean the wife is a doormat, just that she works best under proper supervision!
We slave work best when we have a purpose and our purpose is to make our Owners look better and live a better life because we are there to serve them!